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In Mediation, Can I Reach Out to the Mediator Individually? [VIDEO]

August 8, 2023  | 

 

There are times in mediation when you may want to speak with the mediator about an issue like the mediation is not progressing as expected. It is perfectly fine to reach out to the mediator with your concerns. If you are concerned about your safety — contact the mediator immediately and let them know. If the situation is sensitive, the mediator may suggest a caucus where they will meet with each of you individually. Most importantly, if you have a concern, speak up!

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups, and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

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