914.946.0848  .  contact  .  map & directions  .  subscribe  . 
Mediation Blog

Topic: College | 10 post(s).

July 6, 2017 - {3:06 minutes to read} In the previous part of this series, we looked at parental considerations in relation to a child’s college education. In this final post, we will discuss the child’s role with regard to their college education and any credits against child support. Should there be a contribution from the child? Do you believe that the child should be responsible to pay for part of college, through loans or otherwise? This has both philosophical (shou [...]

June 21, 2017 - {3:18 minutes to read} In Part 1 of this series, we looked at parental considerations in relation to a child’s college education. In Part 2, we will define typical college expenses and look at limits on what a parent will contribute. How do you define “college expenses? Is it just tuition, room and board, or do you want to consider other typical expenses that will be due? In addition to tuition and room and board, most parents include a provision to share: [...]

June 5, 2017 - {4:00 minutes to read} Certain children’s expenses must be paid in addition to child support, according to the child support statute: medical insurance premiums, unreimbursed medical expenses and child care expenses. These are mandatory add-ons. Then, there are expenses that may be ordered at or in the Court’s discretion, including post-secondary educational expenses. The Court will consider the parties’ circumstances and what is in the best interest o [...]

May 19, 2017 - {4:00 minutes to read} I often caution clients against including language in their agreement which is basically just an agreement to agree: anything that begins with “The parties will agree upon...” or “The parties agree to review...” But it depends on the issue and on the couple. Sometimes it makes sense not to spend an enormous amount of time either on something that is not all that contentious or something not likely to happen. Other times, th [...]

November 9, 2016 - {3.36 minutes to read} I try to avoid jargon when working with clients. When I’m not successful, it’s easy to spot by the looks on clients’ faces when they have no idea what I’m talking about. One of these is the phrase “add-ons to child support,” which I tend to use before offering an explanation. This is a very common phrase to professionals who work with separating parents. For the parents themselves, not so much. The basic child [...]

August 2, 2016 - {3:48 minutes to read} Even before the enactment of New York’s post-divorce maintenance statute, most mediators and attorneys worked with an informal but commonly accepted formula for determining the duration of maintenance based upon the length of the marriage. The longer the marriage, the longer the term of maintenance. The new statute now provides an advisory schedule, also based on the length of the marriage, for the court to consider in determining the term o [...]

June 7, 2016 - {4:18 minutes to read} As Lesley Stahl was making the rounds on various talk shows, promoting her new book, Becoming Grandma, the Joys and Science of the New Grandparenting, I learned that the omnipresent Boomer generation has once again made its presence known and adopted its own version of being a grandparent. I was then inspired to do a little research—admittedly over the internet, so I am not attesting to complete accuracy. From my experience, though, what I f [...]

February 16, 2016 - {2:48 minutes to read} Budgets are not fun – composing them, living on them and even just having to think about them. So, I understand the look in clients’ eyes when I first talk to them about completing their budgets. Here are 4 reasons why I think it’s vital to have accurate and complete budgets for each party in mediation. Budgets are a reality checkNo matter the level of income, a good percentage of my clients are living above their means. Seeing [...]

January 19, 2015 - [Time to Read: 3.9 mins]While it’s hard for most people going through a divorce to imagine dating again, it’s more likely than not that you will, and that you will be introducing this new person in your life to your children. Having been that new person who was introduced to two stepchildren, I’m happy to share what worked for us. First and foremost: Do Not introduce the person to your children unless you know it is a serious relationship, no matter h [...]

October 28, 2014 - I love Halloween, and I love being scared. Scary can be fun when it’s within your control, like I am with my Halloween decorations. A five-foot replica of Frankenstein’s monster, which dances to the Monster Mash A fake graveyard in front of my house, with silly inscriptions on the stones Zombie garden gnomes A full-size skeleton sitting in a chair on the porch, wearing a baseball cap backwards, a college sweatshirt and sweat pants It's all more ridic [...]

Page:[ 1 ]
Search
Topics
Divorce (69) | Mediation (68) | Conflict (9) | Divorce Mediation (9) | Mediator (7) | Child Support (7) | Clare A. Piro Mediation (6) | Clare A. Piro (6) | Litigation (6) | Consultation (6) | Collaborative Divorce (6) | Separation Agreement (5) | Finances (4) | Children (4) | Family (4) | Parenting (4) | Child Support Standards Act (3) | Clare Piro (3) | Divorce And Children (3) | Separation (3) | Communication (3) | Settlement (3) | Expenses (3) | Conflict During Mediation (2) | Settlement Agreements (2) | Mediation Myths (2) | Mediation Versus Litigation (2) | College Expenses (2) | Couples (2) | Truth (2) | Mediation Benefits (2) | Moving Forward (2) | Agreement (2) | CSSA (2) | Seperation (2) | Unrequited Love (2) | Assets (2) | Bitterness (2) | Calculating Support (2) | Legislation (2) | Divorce Mediator (2) | Post-Divorce Income (2) | Divorce Finances (2) | Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) (2) | Clients (2) | Anger (2) | College (1) | Nesting (1) | Compassion (1) | Hurricane Harvey (1) | Unemployment (1) | Extremes (1) | Payments (1) | Fall (1) | Conflicy (1) | Acknowledgement (1) | Seperation Agreement (1) | Married Couples (1) | Disclosure (1) | Parents (1) | Moving On (1) | Responsibility (1) | Apology (1) | Contribution (1) | Spouse (1) | Settle Agreement (1) | Divorce Coach (1) | Joint Account (1) | Financial Costs (1) | Accusations Of Delay (1) | Lack Of Trust (1) | Settlement Term (1) | Attorney (1) | Dreaming (1) | Intervention (1) | Therapy (1) | Beneficiary (1) | Life Insurance (1) | Spousal Support (1) | Tentative Agreements (1) | Permanent Agreement (1) | Maritial Assets (1) | Retirement Account (1) | Maritial Property (1) | Transmutation (1) | Separate Property (1) | Commingling (1) | Divorce Papers (1) | Child Support Standards Act (CSSA) (1) | Installment Agreements (1) | Temporary Agreement (1) | Joint Legal Custody (1) | Joint Decision Making (1) | Negative Communication (1) | Power (1) | Marital Property (1) | Listening (1) | Mental Health (1) | Specialist (1) | Equity (1) | House (1) | Post-Divorce Dating (1) | Finding Love After Divorce (1) | Relocation (1) | Change (1) | New York State (1) | Custody (1) | Self Determination (1) | Self-determination (1) | Difficult Clients (1) | Step-Children (1) | Step-Father (1) | Moving On After Divorce (1) | Halloween (1) | Joint Physical Custody (1) | Parenting Post-Divorce (1) | Parenting Plans (1) | Co-Parenting (1) | Fear Of Divorce (1) | Scared Of Divorce (1) | Consulting Attorney (1) | Step-Mother (1) | Alone At The Holidays (1) | Holidays Post-Divorce (1) | Holiday Blues (1) | Control (1) | Balance (1) | Divorce Law (1) | Abundance (1) | Grandparents (1) | Baby Boomers (1) | Living Together (1) | Living Apart (1) | Scarcity (1) | Relationships (1) | Kids (1) | Parenting Plan (1) | Summer (1) | Marriage (1) | Resolution (1) | Effects On Family (1) | Compromise (1) | Blame (1) | Advice (1) | 2015 (1) | Year In Review (1) | Equality (1) | Mindfulness (1) | Self-talk (1) | New York (1) | Adopt Shelter Dogs (1) | Older Dogs (1) | Dogs (1) | Agreements (1) | Budget (1) | School Year (1) |
Connect
Attorney Advertising

The contents of this editorial should not be considered legal advice. The information provided in this editorial is intended to be general information and is not intended to be a substitute for a consultation with an attorney. Each case and situation is different and must be handled based upon the specific facts and circumstances unique to that case. For specific answers to questions on an individual case, it is best to consult with an attorney. Attorney Advertising