What to Do When You Can't Do a Buyout [VIDEO]

 

The previous article in this series looked at how a partial buyout might help resolve the issue of today’s higher interest rates complicating your divorce. This article outlines other creative ways to approach the situation, including one called a credit against child support. 

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups, and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

Would a Partial Buyout Work for Your Divorce? [VIDEO]

 

My last article spoke about how high mortgage interest rates could complicate a buyout in your divorce mediation. In the second article of this series, we explore how a partial buyout might be the answer for the person who is not staying in the home but needs to have some cash right away. There are a couple of options that might allow this to work for your divorce.

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

Are High-Interest Rates Complicating Your Divorce Mediation? [VIDEO]

This article is the beginning of a series about the disposition of the marital home for couples with children. When there are no children in the marriage, the usual plan for a divorcing couple is to sell and divide the proceeds. When there are children, one party may buy out the other in order for the children to remain in their school district, but today’s higher interest rates may complicate the buyout and the divorce.

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups, and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

 

 

Can Meditation Help You Navigate Through Your Divorce? [VIDEO]

 

Going through a divorce isn’t an easy thing and there are times when you can’t sleep worrying about it. Or when your mind is racing and you can’t concentrate. Or strong emotions overwhelm. And this almost always happens when your usual support resources are not available. What do you do? This blog suggests that the practice of meditation may be very helpful.

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups, and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

Stay in Mediation and Make Decisions Yourself [VIDEO]

 

I had a couple who came to mediation from family court. They worked through all the issues of their parenting plan, except for one minor issue. They decided to go back to family court and ask the judge to make the decision for them. Sounds easy, but that’s not exactly how it worked out.

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

 

 

Are You Harder on Yourself Than You Are on Anyone Else? [VIDEO]

 

Do you find yourself using a very negative voice that speaks to you in a way that you would never speak to anyone else? In this video, I offer some insights that I picked up in a meditation on cultivating self-compassion. Taking a moment to stop, take a breath and think of what a friend might say to you can lead to some healthy self-reflection and a more productive discussion with yourself.

If you would like more information about mediation, prenups and family law, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com

Is It Fair to Ask Your Fiancé to Sign a Prenup Before You Get Married? [VIDEO]

 

A prenuptial agreement isn't in itself fair or unfair — It depends on what the terms are. There are two ways to address the issue of fairness, either through attorney negotiation or mediation. Throughout my series on prenups, I’ve suggested that mediation is the best process for this type of discussion, especially in terms of whether or not you find the terms to be fair.

A Marital Property Definition in a Prenup is Important [VIDEO]

 

No couple gets married expecting to be divorced, but when creating a prenuptial agreement most couples decide to include a term defining what will be considered marital and separate property. If the couple defines them in a way that limits them, then obviously, there will be limited assets subject to distribution if they do get divorced. If you would like more information about mediation and prenups, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.

Feeling Scared, Anxious, and Not in Control? It Is Halloween, After All. [VIDEO]

 

It’s that time of year when ghosts and goblins abound, scaring the kids and sometimes the adults as well. The overall feeling of being scared, anxious and out of control is very similar to how divorcing parents feel, especially when it comes to their children. A Child Specialist can advise you in ways to help combat those emotions.

A Prenup Can Ensure the Provisions of Your Will Are Observed [VIDEO]

 

In New York, there is a statute that gives a surviving spouse the right to elect against the Will of a deceased spouse, if that Will leaves them with less than the greater of a third of the estate or $50,000. In a prenup, you can waive that Right of Election if circumstances warrant it. Mediation is a good place to talk about your expectations and what would be appropriate to maintain your standard of living. If you would like more information about mediation and prenups, check out my website — ClarePiroMediation.com.